Allie Caffyn

Allison Caffyn is a licensed professional counselor and a certified Hakomi therapist who has been in professional practice for more than 25 years. She is a passionate therapist who loves supporting couples in building loving and intimate relationships that last a lifetime.

Allie’s Marriage Journey

“I’ve been married for over 30 years, but it hasn’t always been easy. Even though I loved my husband, I struggled with our differences and wondered more than once if I’d just picked the wrong person.”

“My husband and I had been through traditional couples counseling and weekend retreats, but we continued to fall back into boredom, conflict, and disconnection. To understand my marriage, I began taking couples training as a therapist. The more I learned about attachment, triggering, conflict, repair, and compromise, the more I understood why so many of us struggle. Partnering is hard and complex. Today, my deep understanding of why we get stuck and how to get out has changed my professional life and profoundly changed my marriage. Now, there is nowhere I would rather be and no one to whom I’d rather be married! He holds all my good and difficult qualities and still adores me. I look forward to growing old with him.”